My latest column appearing on JNS.ORG focuses on the inability of Rep. Ilhan Omar to say "I'm sorry" for another anti-Israel outburst.
Ilhan Omar and the art of not apologizing.
By Stephen M. Flatow
Ilhan Omar has perfected the art of not
apologizing.
It takes considerable skill to come up with
the words to sound just apologetic enough to get your critics off your back,
but without actually apologizing. It took Omar several tries, but the U.S.
congresswoman from Minnesota seems to have finally figured out the formula.
First, she tried the tactic of pleading
ignorance. This goes back to 2012 when Omar was serving as campaign manager for
a Minnesota state senator. During that year’s Hamas missile jihad against
Israel, Omar was furious that the international community, which was
criticizing and pressuring Israel for defending itself, was not criticizing and
pressuring it strongly enough. So, she tweeted: “Israel has hypnotized the
world, may Allah awaken the people and help them see the evil doings of
Israel.”
Nobody complained about it at the time
because Omar was, literally, a political nobody. But in January 2019, soon
after she was elected to the U.S. House of Representatives, the tweet
resurfaced, and she issued what was to become the first in a series of
non-apologies.
According to Omar, she didn’t know that the
words she used in 2012 would bother anybody. It was only afterwards, she said,
“that I heard from Jewish orgs” that there was anything offensive about her
language.
It was a classic shifting of
responsibility. What she was saying, in effect, was that she couldn’t possibly
have known, on her own, that anybody would be offended by her saying that
Israel is “evil” and controls the world. Those tardy Jewish organizations told
her only after she said it, not before!
She added defiantly, “I will not shy away
of [sic] criticism of any government when I see injustice.” Of course, saying
the Jewish state controls the world is not “criticism of a government,” but
that’s how Omar deflects.
Omar’s second non-apology came in February
2019 after she tweeted that the support of many U.S. congress members for
Israel is “all about the Benjamins baby.” In other words, her colleagues
support Israel only because they are paid off. And in a follow-up tweet, she
named AIPAC as the one doing the bribing.
The uproar was so intense across the
political spectrum that this time Omar had to actually use the word
“apologize.” This is the defense strategy in which you use the A-word, but you
don’t mean it because, in the same breath, you assure your supporters that you
will continue saying the same things that got everybody mad in the first place.
“I unequivocally apologize,” she said in a
statement, but then vowed to continue attacking what she called “the
problematic role of lobbyists in our politics.” In other words, she will
continue accusing Jewish lobbyists of bribing members of Congress.
Last week, Omar found herself in search of
a new formula for not apologizing. The controversy began when she asserted
during a congressional hearing that the United States and Israel have committed
“crimes against humanity,” just as Hamas and the Taliban have.
Twelve Jewish Democrats in Congress
publicly condemned her despicable analogy, and some other prominent Democrats
reportedly complained to Omar behind the scenes. This time, she didn’t even
bother using the word “apologize.” Instead, she responded to her critics: I
didn’t say it. You misinterpreted me. And also, you’re a bunch of racists.
Naturally, she led with the racism
accusation. That’s usually a sure-fire argument-stopper. In a tweet, Omar
accused her critics of using “Islamophobic tropes.” Because that allegation was
so obviously contrived, it did nothing to stifle her critics. So, the
representative then issued a second statement: “I was in no way equating
terrorist organizations with democratic countries with well-established
judicial systems.”
Of course, she was equating
them. That was obvious to anybody who can read and understand English. It was
just a rhetorical strategy for Omar to blame everybody else instead of taking
responsibility for her own words.
It was actually quite a calculated little
formulation of words. Look closely at her sentence. Notice how she left herself
just enough wiggle room to in effect assure her followers: “Don’t worry; I’m
not really retracting the analogy. I don’t believe that Israel is either
democratic or has a well-established judicial system. So, all I’m saying that
terrorists—Hamas, the Taliban and Israel—are different from the U.S., which
does have a judicial system, even though it’s flawed.”
It was both clever and effective. Omar’s
latest non-apology was just enough to satisfy her Jewish Democratic critics,
and with that, the controversy has subsided—until next time.
But that leaves the rest of us to ponder
several important questions. How is it that only 12 of the 25 Jewish members of
Congress were willing to publicly challenge Omar’s equation of America and
Israel with terrorist groups? And how is it that only 12 of the 223 Democrats
in Congress spoke out? Do they agree that America and Israel are terrorist
regimes? Or are they just completely intimidated by the fear of being accused
of racism or Islamophobia? And what does that say about the future of the
Democratic Party and its positions on Israel and anti-Semitism?
Stephen M. Flatow is a vice president of
the Religious Zionists of America, an attorney in New Jersey and the father of
Alisa Flatow, who was murdered in an Iranian-sponsored Palestinian terrorist
attack in 1995. He is the author of “A Father’s Story: My Fight for Justice
Against Iranian Terror.”